The BF's and GF's topic

Post by **GT3x24x7** » 26 Dec 2006, 16:45

Christ Dizzi, how many times do you have to be asked?

And yeh, welcome back.

Dizzi · Post by **Dizzi** » 26 Dec 2006, 16:52

sorry :S wont happen again!

Post by **GT3x24x7** » 26 Dec 2006, 16:55

Yay.

Cpt.Razkit · Post by **Cpt.Razkit** » 06 Jan 2007, 04:48

It's a surprise to me that my g/f and I have been going out this long. We argue sometimes, but eh, its alrite. 2months is a pretty long time..lol

Post by **GT3x24x7** » 06 Jan 2007, 05:02

Sure it's a long time. Compared to an episode of Friends, that is.

BKize_GT · Post by **BKize_GT** » 06 Jan 2007, 05:23

Here at my school the average relationship is 3 weeks

t3ice · Post by **t3ice** » 06 Jan 2007, 09:39

^ 2 months is nothing.

..ive been with my gf for more then 4 months now..
Its seems pretty darmn long once i think about it now

xHaZxMaTx · Post by **xHaZxMaTx** » 06 Jan 2007, 09:56

My sis and her first boyfriend (now fiance) have been together for several years, and if things keep going the way they are now, they'll be together for the rest of their lives. Top that.

Post by **Pabl0z** » 06 Jan 2007, 10:04

Quite many people can top that?
There have probably been people who have been married for like 90+ years? :E
Like my parents... lol

Dizzi · Post by **Dizzi** » 07 Jan 2007, 01:03

why is it that people cant forget what you used to be like and just be happy with the person you are now?

korge · Post by **korge** » 07 Jan 2007, 01:11

t3ice wrote:^ 2 months is nothing. ..ive been with my gf for more then 4 months now..
Its seems pretty darmn long once i think about it now

My friend who is a senior in High now, has been with the same girll (only minor break ups then back together again) for 5 years..

They are like married.

darknight788 · Post by **darknight788** » 07 Jan 2007, 01:17

been with my gf who is also a senior now for over 2 years. i think we might get married once im done with college and so is she.

t3ice · Post by **t3ice** » 07 Jan 2007, 13:10

korge wrote:My friend who is a senior in High now, has been with the same girll (only minor break ups then back together again) for 5 years..

They are like married.

...u mean they're like ...married, and not really married, right?!

Lol..i really dont know the future about me though.... Actuallly never thought about marriage and shiznit...

xHaZxMaTx · Post by **xHaZxMaTx** » 07 Jan 2007, 13:26

I believe that's why he said 'like', to emphasize that they weren't actually married.

yammer_y2 · Post by **yammer_y2** » 08 Jan 2007, 12:28

wow thats cool...my relationships nvr last longer than 6 months lol

Dizzi · Post by **Dizzi** » 10 Jan 2007, 17:41

me n my bf split up on monday night n he doesnt even want to be friends. i understand what hes saying but hes exaggerating everything to make me feel guilty for ending it

but all we did was argue every time we talked

xALFAxGT · Post by **xALFAxGT** » 10 Jan 2007, 22:02

Believe me Dizzi, being friends with ex's does not work immediately after splitting up.

If you want to be friends, give it plenty of time for you both to forget about the relationship and the friendship might flourish after that.

darknight788 · Post by **darknight788** » 11 Jan 2007, 08:10

no it really doesnt, ive tried and it just does not work for some reason

maybe people are different there but here its a no go the troubled relationship is always in the back of your heads and they can never forget it. i still remeber my relationships that didnt turn out so well and those were over 4 years ago

xALFAxGT · Post by **xALFAxGT** » 11 Jan 2007, 11:17

I think it depends on the relationship. Out of my old ones, i'm only good friends with one of them.

Of the ones that we did the "lets be friends" thing. We were only kidding ourselves.

The rest of the old gf's have been actively forgotten.

Dizzi · Post by **Dizzi** » 11 Jan 2007, 17:05

i get easily attached to people. and ill the people iv been with i still speak to now.we've had rough patches but we have come through it. i even speak to the lad that i thought got me pregnant. we get along well again now

SomeKindOfMonster · Post by **SomeKindOfMonster** » 12 Jan 2007, 03:47

Being friends with ex's can work, but only after a long time. I had a gf for about 8 months, and we broke up, didnt talk for about 6 months, and now we are like the best of friends again, and she gets along great with my new gf. So yeah, it can work sometimes. Just celebrated 12 months with my girlfriend, took her to Great Keppel Island for a week.

Tunerfreak · Post by **Tunerfreak** » 12 Jan 2007, 21:45

Just recently found out the girl ive liked for ages likes me so I asked her out and she said yes $\:D/$

+1happy

xHaZxMaTx · Post by **xHaZxMaTx** » 12 Jan 2007, 21:51

3 cheers for TF! (Hip hip, huzzah!)x3.

Carcrazy · Post by **Carcrazy** » 12 Jan 2007, 22:00

I've only had 1 gf... in pre-school. (lol) Every other time... rejected... hard.

But it's all good, their loss!

DArgo · Post by **DArgo** » 12 Jan 2007, 23:43

That's right. Their loss

@Tunerfreak: I hope you two stay together happily ever after